Hello, I'm Deborah Wolf,
I am a Somatic Therapist, Sex and Intimacy Coach, and Shamanic Practitioner supporting individuals and couples to reconnect with their bodies, heal old patterns, and awaken deeper intimacy, emotional clarity, and embodied truth.
My work weaves together Somatic Therapy, Somatic Sex Coaching, erotic psychology, erotic parts work, IFS informed Parts Work, trauma aware practice, and Red Temple embodiment, alongside elements of somatic kink and relational attunement.
I help people understand their nervous system, meet the parts of themselves that shape their desire and relationships, soften shame based patterns, and return to a more honest, alive, and connected relationship with themselves.
My work supports people in exploring desire, boundaries, relational dynamics, shame, grief, sensuality, and the parts of themselves that have stayed hidden. Whether working with individuals or couples, the space I hold is steady, attuned, and deeply embodied.
Alongside this, I have spent over 12 years working in Shamanic and Ancestral Healing, tracking emotional, energetic, and soul level imprints and tending to the deeper layers that shape intimacy, identity, and relational wounds.
My approach integrates grounded therapeutic tools with body based awareness, somatic tracking, mythic wisdom, and ritual based repair, allowing the practical and the soulful to meet in a way that is accessible, transformative, and deeply human.
The work is relational, experiential, and client led. Safety, pacing, consent, and nervous system regulation sit at the centre of everything I do.
I am also the co-creator of The Red Temple, a community offering sacred intimacy workshops, embodiment rituals, and somatic erøtic events across Australia.
I host a long running Women’s Red Tent in Ocean Shores, a circle devoted to connection, ceremony, and feminine embodiment that has been active for over nine years.
I offer sessions in person in Ocean Shores, NSW, and online for clients anywhere in the world.



